Conversation Starters

We’re going past small talk with these conversation cards.

Skip the Small Talk

Instead of the typical how-are-you's, here's a different approach: 
Let's have deeper and more meaningful conversations with each other. These conversation cards let you explore each other's thoughts on sex, periods, fertility, mental health and other topics that are considered taboo.

Conversation Starters, made by Lilith.

52 cards. 6 categories.
Unlimited conversations.

WHAT THE PEOPLE SAY

“Love them! Love the packaging and the print and the cards of course. Keep up the work! :)”
Nabihah Abdul Razak

WHAT THE PEOPLE SAY

“This is kinda like '36 Questions That Leads to Love' for couples, but instead you can do this with your close friends. For those of you who likes playing cards like me and my squad, y'all should get this and play with yours!”
Khadijah Rahim

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Play it with your friends, your loved ones, your colleagues, your family, or use it as a journaling prompt!

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How To Use

It isn’t always easy to get into a good conversation.
Many of our best ones seem to have happened by chance.
These cards are designed to be used in a whole range of different situations.
We have some suggestions for how you can use these cards, but go ahead and explore new ways of using them on your own.

Ice breaker in a group of strangers. Get to know each other with these conversation prompts.

Purpose/Goal:   Ice breaker
Situation:   A group of strangers
Number of Pax:   Flexible
Duration:   Flexible
Cards required:   All categories

How To Play:
1.
Shuffle the cards. Put them back into the bag.
2. Pick out a random card.
3. Take turns to introduce yourself, then answer the question on the card.

Get intimate with your girlfriends. Use these conversation starters to talk about things you've never discussed before.

Purpose/Goal:   Pillow talk
Situation:   A group of girl friends
Number of Pax:   Flexible
Duration:   Flexible
Cards required:   Choose 1 category you'd like to explore

How To Play:
1. Choose a category. Place cards from other categories aside.
2. Distribute the cards from your category so that each person holds one card.
3. The person with the shortest hair starts first.
4. Reading aloud the topic and question prompt, then sharing her own experiences based on the topic.
5. Take turns sharing about the topic.
6. Once everyone has shared about the topic, repeat steps 4 and 5 with the next person.

Build rapport with your team. Understand what issues outside of work your team members care about the most.

Purpose/Goal:   Team building
Situation:   Team activity session / meals
Number of Pax:   Flexible
Duration:   Flexible
Cards required:   All categories

How To Play:
1. Lay out the cards according to category.
2. Take turns to pick a category to talk about and select a card from that category.
3. Discuss the topic on the card. Feel free to start with the question or use a totally different starting point.

Connect with your partner. Learn more about your respective opinions on different issues and have deeper conversations.

Purpose/Goal:   Relationship enhancement
Situation:   Dinner date with your partner
Number of Pax:   2
Duration:   Flexible
Cards required:   Choose 1 category you'd like to explore

How To Play:
1. Choose a category. Place cards from other categories aside.
2. Lay out the cards from the category you’ve decided to discuss.
3. Take turns to select a card from that category.
4. Discuss the topic on the card. Feel free to start with the question or talk about something that you’ve been wanting to bring up.

Talk to your parents. Have honest conversations with your parents and get to know their views on certain topics.

Purpose/Goal:   Relationship enhancement
Situation:   Conversation with parents
Number of Pax:   Flexible
Duration:   Flexible
Cards required:   All categories

How To Play:
1. Choose a category. Place cards from other categories aside.
2. Lay out the cards from the category you’ve decided to discuss.
3. Take turns to select a card from that category.
4. Discuss the topic on the card. Feel free to start with the question or talk about something that you’ve been wanting to bring up.

Learn more about yourself. Understand yourself and learn how to verbalise your opinions on issues.

Purpose/Goal:   Self-understanding
Situation:   Journalling session
Number of Pax:   1
Duration:   Flexible
Cards required:   All categories

How To Play:
1. Shuffle the cards then place them back into the bag.
2. Pick a random card from the deck.
3. Use the topic on the card to write a journal entry. Feel free to start with the question on the card or start where you feel inspired.

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